LMAOO.....Love the way you ended this piece, Peace. On a serious note though, I think one prevalent problem is church girls don't vet. They expect to meet the one man that is the perfect man for them, one time. It's not fairytale. Forgetting that everyone is at different stages of their faith walk and not everyone has same heart for God, unfortunately. So my babes should please begin to vet men they like critically; stop putting religion before the human. Being a christian man who appears to love God because he prays and is actively serving in church is good but how does he talk to you? Is he a kind person? You like a man, take time to get to know him before giving him the boyfriend or husband tag. Being a church boy isn't enough at all. Yes, Christ is working on all of us, changing heart and desires oh but ensure Christ has done the work before you commit..it's really okay to get to know a church boy, decide he's not a good fit for you and keep it moving.